Happy belated Mother’s Day to all the incredible moms out there! This past weekend was particularly special for me as I celebrated my first Mother’s Day. It was a time filled with joy, family, and some bittersweet realizations. Here’s a glimpse into my weekend and the emotions it stirred.
A Beach Getaway
To celebrate, my family and I headed to the beach. Along with my husband Ian, our baby, and our wonderful nurse Marcy, we enjoyed a delightful weekend. We cooked meals together, went shopping, watched TV, and simply relaxed. The beach provided the perfect setting for us to unwind and cherish these special moments. It was everything I could have asked for on my first Mother’s Day.
The Joy of Motherhood
Being a mother for the first time brought indescribable joy. Holding my baby and celebrating this milestone surrounded by loved ones was a dream come true. This experience reminded me of the blessings of motherhood and how grateful I am for my family. It was a key bucket list moment I had always imagined, and it did not disappoint.
Health Realities and Reflections
Amidst all the happiness, there was also a moment of sobering reflection. As I anticipate an upcoming kidney transplant, I have to face the reality of living with a compromised immune system due to immunosuppressants. Realizing that extensive travel to places like Africa and Mexico might expose me to health risks was heartbreaking. It meant that many of my travel dreams might have to be reconsidered.
Redefining Dreams and Priorities
While this realization was tough, it brought clarity about what truly matters. My health and well-being are now my top priorities so that I can continue to be there for my family. Although I may need to revise my bucket list, I look forward to finding joy in experiences that are safe and manageable. My dream destinations may change, but the essence of those dreams remains.
I’m currently seeking a kidney donor and I’m working with an organization called DOVE to help facilitate the experience.
