I finally got to meet my donor. At first, he wanted to remain anonymous, but then he changed his mind.

I’ve got great news to share—I have a kidney transplant scheduled for February 18th!

I have eight people actively testing to see if they could be possible kidney donors for me.

A paired exchange, or kidney swap, occurs when two or more living donors exchange kidneys with transplant recipients to create compatible matches.

I’ve been on the struggle bus this weekend with fatigue.

I often get asked how I shower with a port catheter. I use a JJ Care catheter protector, handheld shower, and towel to carefully wash while keeping my port catheter dry.

I’ve started dedicating 30 minutes a day to a “pity party” to fully acknowledge my struggles. This intentional grieving process has been liberating, allowing me to mourn and then move forward more present and focused. It helps me balance acceptance and hope, staying grounded in the present while envisioning a better future. I hope this practice can help others feeling overwhelmed.

Learn how to cook delicious peanut butter and jelly French toast that is also kidney-friendly with our step-by-step video tutorial. This recipe is perfect for anyone looking to indulge in a tasty breakfast or brunch dish without compromising their kidney health.

I have important health updates: I have a crucial meeting with INOVA Fairfax to get listed for a deceased kidney donor in Virginia, and my appointment at John Hopkins in Baltimore has been moved up, allowing me to get listed in Maryland sooner. These steps increase my chances for a kidney donor, bringing hope and gratitude for the support I receive.

Barney turns 5 months old tomorrow and loves his bouncer, filling the house with his giggles. Despite facing dialysis on the 4th of July, I hope to catch some fireworks later. Barney will be with Ian and my parents, giving me comfort. Wishing everyone a fantastic 4th of July filled with love, laughter, and beautiful memories.