Living with chronic illness transforms everyday questions into complex emotional and physical challenges. One simple query, “How are you feeling?” often becomes the hardest to answer accurately.
The Difficulty of Explaining Pain
When people ask, “How are you feeling?” it’s difficult to respond concisely. My days are marked by chronic stomach pain, low energy, and the struggle to perform basic tasks. Some days are better, but many feel overwhelmingly worse, making short and positive answers a struggle.
The Emotional Burden
This question also carries a heavy emotional weight. I grieve for my former healthy self, whom I took for granted. Expressing this loss succinctly to others is a challenge in itself.
Balancing Honesty and Empathy
While I strive to be honest about my condition, I also try to avoid burdening others with the full weight of my struggles. I often say, “Today is tough, but I’m managing,” which allows me to be truthful without overwhelming the person asking. This response feels honest yet considerate, providing a middle ground that respects both my reality and the inquirer’s concern.
But overall, I’m doing okay.
I’m currently seeking a kidney donor and I’m working with an organization called DOVE to help facilitate the experience.
